On iPhone or iPad, turn on Ask to Buy for your child's Apple Account, or block purchases in Screen Time: Settings > Screen Time > Apps & Websites > App Store > In-app Purchases > Blocked. On Android, set Google Play purchase verification to Always, and turn on purchase approvals in Family Link for your child's Google Account.
These steps follow Apple's and Google's help pages as published on 13 October 2026. Apple's support articles describe the redesigned parental controls in iOS 27 and iPadOS 27. Menus on older versions have different names, and we give the iOS 26 path below. We did not try these settings on a device. The guide covers Apple and Google Play only; Amazon Fire tablets have their own controls, which we haven't verified.
Which setting to use
- Your child has their own iPhone or iPad and their own Apple Account: use Ask to Buy. You approve each request from your phone.
- Your child plays on your phone or a shared iPad: block in-app purchases in Screen Time and ask for a password on every purchase.
- Your child has an Android device with a Google Account supervised in Family Link: turn on purchase approvals.
- Your child borrows your Android phone: set purchase verification to Always and think twice about fingerprint verification.
You can combine them: for example, Ask to Buy on your child's iPad and Always Require on your own iPhone, which your child sometimes borrows.
iPhone and iPad: turn on Ask to Buy
Ask to Buy needs Family Sharing and a separate Apple Account for your child that nobody else uses. On your own iPhone or iPad:
- Open Settings.
- Tap Family.
- Tap your child's name.
- Tap Apps & Websites.
- Tap Restrictions. Enter your Screen Time passcode if asked.
- Tap Ask to Buy.
- Turn on Require Purchase Approval.
Apple turns Ask to Buy on by default for children under 13, and in some places it can't be turned off for anyone under 18. It covers app downloads, in-app purchases and redownloads of shared apps, whatever the app's age rating. It does not send a request when a child redownloads their own purchase, installs an update or uses a redemption code.
You can approve from your iPhone, iPad, Mac or Apple Watch. If you don't answer within 24 hours, your child has to ask again. Missed requests also show up in Messages.
iPhone and iPad: block in-app purchases in Screen Time
This works on any device, including your own phone when your child borrows it. Screen Time must be on first.
- Open Settings.
- Tap Screen Time.
- Tap Apps & Websites.
- Tap App Store.
- Tap In-app Purchases.
- Select Blocked.
On iOS 26 and earlier, Apple's iPhone User Guide gives a different path:
- Open Settings.
- Tap Screen Time. If you're managing your child's device, tap their name.
- Tap Content & Privacy Restrictions.
- Turn the setting on.
- Tap iTunes & App Store Purchases and restrict store purchases there.
The App Store chapter of the iOS 27 User Guide still shows this older path, so use it if Screen Time on your device has no Apps & Websites item.
Pick a Screen Time passcode your child hasn't watched you type. If they know it, they can switch the setting back.
iPhone and iPad: ask for a password on every purchase
- Open Settings.
- Tap your name.
- Tap Media & Purchases.
- Tap Password Settings.
- Choose Always Require.
The other option, Require After 15 Minutes, skips the password if you entered it in the last 15 minutes. That's the window in which a child on a shared iPad can buy something right after you did. If you don't see Password Settings, Face ID or Touch ID is already on for purchases. Apple says you can't turn off password protection for paid items completely.
Android: set purchase verification to Always
- Open the Google Play app.
- Tap your profile picture at the top right.
- Tap Payments & subscriptions.
- Tap Purchase verification.
- Tap Verification frequency. In some regions you'll see Verification requirement instead, which works by payment method.
- Choose Always. If you see Verification requirement instead, choose All payment methods.
- Confirm the change.
Google lists three frequency options: "Always (default setting)", "Every 30 minutes" on mobile, and "Never". For apps and games designed for ages 12 and under, Google says it verifies every purchase anyway. The setting applies to the device where you choose it.
Biometrics need care. Google warns that any fingerprint or face stored on the device can verify purchases for every Google Account on it. If your child's fingerprint is saved on your phone, use your Google Account password for purchases instead. The same applies to a screen-lock PIN your child knows.
Android: purchase approvals in Family Link
For a child whose Google Account you manage with Family Link:
- Open the Family Link app.
- Select your child at the top left.
- Tap Controls.
- Tap Google Play.
- Under Purchases & download approvals, tap Require approval for.
- Choose All content, Paid content only, In-app purchases only or Never.
When your child tries to buy, you approve by entering your Google Account password on their device. In the same Google Play section you can set the highest content rating your child can download. The Google Play app has a matching route for family members: profile picture > Settings > Family > Manage family members > [name] > Purchase approvals.
All settings in one table
| Platform | Setting | Where | What it controls |
|---|---|---|---|
| iPhone, iPad | Ask to Buy | Settings > Family > [child] > Apps & Websites > Restrictions | Parent approval for downloads, in-app purchases and shared-app redownloads on the child's account |
| iPhone, iPad (iOS 27) | In-app Purchases: Blocked | Settings > Screen Time > Apps & Websites > App Store | All Apple In-App Purchases on that device |
| iPhone, iPad (iOS 26 and earlier) | iTunes & App Store Purchases | Settings > Screen Time > Content & Privacy Restrictions | Store purchases and redownloads |
| iPhone, iPad | Password Settings: Always Require | Settings > [your name] > Media & Purchases | Password for every purchase, with no 15-minute window |
| Android | Purchase verification: Always | Play Store > profile picture > Payments & subscriptions | Verification for every Google Play billing purchase on that device |
| Android (Family Link) | Purchases & download approvals | Family Link > [child] > Controls > Google Play | Parent approval for all content, paid content or in-app purchases only |
| Android (family group) | Purchase approvals | Play Store > profile picture > Settings > Family > Manage family members | Similar choices; the family manager can set them for any member |
What these settings don't cover
Both companies' controls apply to purchases billed through them. Google says so directly: purchase approval settings "only apply to purchases made through Google Play's billing system". Apple's refund page notes that in some countries, digital purchases might not be made through Apple at all. A purchase billed by someone else, such as a web checkout, may not be covered by these switches.
Purchase settings also don't remove ads; our guide to reading a kids' app listing shows where the ad labels sit. And a subscription started before you changed anything keeps renewing until someone cancels it, as our Disney Coloring World guide explains step by step.
Checked on 13 October 2026 against Apple Support (Ask to Buy, Screen Time in-app purchases, parental controls, password settings, the iOS 26 and iOS 27 iPhone User Guides) and Google Help (purchase verification, Family Link purchase approvals, Google Play controls). Menu names reflect iOS 27 and the current Play Store and may differ on your device or in your region.
FAQ
What does Ask to Buy do on iPhone?
When your child tries to download an app or make an in-app purchase, you get a request on your own iPhone, iPad, Mac or Apple Watch and can approve or decline it. It needs Family Sharing and a separate Apple Account for the child. Apple turns it on by default for children under 13.
Why can my child still buy things with Ask to Buy on?
Check which Apple Account the device uses. Ask to Buy applies only to a child's own account in your Family Sharing group, and Apple says updates, redownloads of the child's own purchases and redemption codes don't trigger a request. On a shared iPad signed in to your account, block in-app purchases in Screen Time instead.
Can I allow free apps but block in-app purchases?
Yes. On iPhone, Screen Time lists In-app Purchases separately from installing apps. In Family Link, choose "In-app purchases only" under purchase approvals, so your child can get free apps but needs your approval to buy inside them. The Play Store's family settings offer the same choice.
Is Google Play purchase verification on by default?
Google lists "Always" as the default, which asks for verification on every purchase through Google Play's billing system on that device. Someone may have switched it to "Every 30 minutes" or "Never", so it's worth checking. For apps and games designed for ages 12 and under, Google says it always verifies anyway.
Do these settings also stop ads in kids' games?
No. They control purchases, not advertising, and a game with ads will keep showing them. To avoid ads, read the labels on the store page before downloading: "Contains ads" on Google Play and "Contains Advertising" on the App Store. Our guide to princess games without ads shows where to look.
Sources
All checked on 13 October 2026.
- Apple Support, Approve what your child can purchase and download with Ask to Buy (published 14 September 2026): https://support.apple.com/en-us/105055
- Apple Support, Set up parental controls to manage your child's iPhone or iPad (published 14 September 2026): https://support.apple.com/en-us/105121
- Apple Support, Turn off Apple In-App Purchases from Screen Time on your iPhone or iPad (published 17 September 2026): https://support.apple.com/en-us/102470
- Apple iPhone User Guide (iOS 26), Block apps, app downloads, websites, and purchases: https://support.apple.com/guide/iphone/block-apps-app-downloads-websites-purchases-iph3ff83f3b1/26/ios/26
- Apple iPhone User Guide (iOS 27), Change settings and restrictions in the App Store: https://support.apple.com/guide/iphone/change-settings-and-restrictions-iph3dfd91de/27/ios/27
- Apple Support, Require a password for purchases: https://support.apple.com/en-us/119848
- Apple Support, Request a refund for apps or content that you bought from Apple: https://support.apple.com/en-us/118223
- Google Play Help, Purchase verification for Google Play: https://support.google.com/googleplay/answer/1626831
- Google For Families Help, Purchase approvals on Google Play: https://support.google.com/families/answer/7039872
- Google For Families Help, Manage your child's Google Play apps: https://support.google.com/families/answer/7103028
- What Does “Contains Ads” Mean? Kids’ App Store Labels
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If a purchase already went through, follow our steps for getting a refund when your child buys something in a game.